hello no one!
i’ve tumbled on over to another tumblr.
if you want to keep looking at reblogged photos and reading silly two-sentence thoughts, all of which are mainly about mermaids/goddesses, follow me as we tumbl on over to ohhhmygoddess.tumblr.com.
see you there, no one!
love,
claudia
YOU CAN’T ZOOM OUT.
(I’m not sure how someone hasn’t beaten me to this.)
I treat my chosen family and my spiritual family like gold. You know why, they are the ones who Love and Challenge me. No coddling, no throwing my mistakes back up in my face.
from Doris zine
Friendship should not be a way to pass the time, a way to kill time, a distraction. Friendship should be a beginning place for the revolution.
Prioritize friendship. don’t get sucked into the isolation of just being a couple or wanting just trueloveoneperson to really understand you. don’t force someone to be monogamous, don’t force someone to be non-monogamous. If your loved one is sick or hurting so bad, prioritize them. Know the difference between self-righteous politics and a politic of compassion and love. But prioritize friendships. Talk to your friends about your hopes and dreams and fears and secrets that you usually save for your lover. Let them close to you. Commit yourself to them. Move to maintain friendships, not just to maintain relationships.
THIS THIS THIS a hundred times a thousand times EXACTLY YES! (vy, you knew i would love this, didn’t you?)
“you hesitated and thought for a moment.and said where is the baking powder, and the oven cleaner”
heartbreaking!
